Failure is never an overnight phenomenon

Failure is never an overnight phenomenon

It is an inevitable result of the wrong choices you have been making over the years.

You did not become overweight overnight. Did you? Remember, no child is ever born obese. You either chose to ignore your habit of binging daily, or simply ignore doing daily physical exercises and as a result after few years you are now really overweight.

What about the failed relationship? It too didn’t happen overnight? You probably ignored your partner’s problems for years, or were too busy in your own life that the partner’s concerns were never your concerns.

I am sure, we know many people who are drowning in loans and credit card debts. It is simply that they made wrong choices of spending by borrowing; without making any conscious efforts to earn that money.

Many students make a wrong choice of wasting time watching TV and not really choosing to study everyday regularly. And when they fail in exams; they tend to blame everyone else except themselves.

Let’s look at people who get fired from their jobs. Do you think it happened suddenly? Absolutely not. They were fired because over the years they probably chose not to perform their duties fully. They were never ON PURPOSE, at their work place. Usually they were busy gossiping or surfing net simply doing a time pass or something similar. As a result of their wrong choices, their performance reduced and finally they became unwanted entity and ultimately were fired.

Similarly, Poverty too is your choice. YES, being poor is a choice that you make. This is true anywhere in the world not just in India.

No one comes with money nor do they die with it. The only thing that matter is your will power.

True, you may not have chosen to be living in poverty but YOU definitely have made a mental decision to accept your situation and have chosen to stay there. You may not even mentally ‘know’ that you’ve chosen the lifestyle. Yet it all hinges on choices you make. Included in that is the decision to not change where you are at.

A decision not to change is a decision to remain the same.

If you simply care to look around, you will find enough billionaires who were born in a poor family.

Today we have people who were poor but now they are rich. May it is any poor living in any part of the world he always has a choice to be rich. Just dream and chase it.

So is there a solution for all this? Sure there it is.

• Just get present to the choices you are making moment by moment.
• Consciously learn to make right choices. Learn to make quick decisions.
• If unsure, take advice from successful people. And take inspired actions.