Live the Life from the Point of Personal Responsibility

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Live the Life from the Point of Personal Responsibility

Whenever something goes wrong or something unexpected happens, most of us tend to “blame” someone else for what went wrong. In doing so, we lose a tremendous learning opportunity.

Each of us makes progress by learning from mistakes. When we blame someone, it gives that person power over the situation. For example, “If my colleague had done what he agreed to do, then this would never have happened.” That may be true. However, this statement gives my colleague the power over situation, and we usually learn very little from the experience.

However, even after avoiding the trap of lying blame, we sometime tend to justify what happened. “I started early from home, yet, because of packed traffic I reached office late.” This is just another form of blame. Instead of blaming a person, we blame the circumstances. No matter how reasonable the justification is, we lose an opportunity to optimally learn from the situation.

Once we get beyond blaming and justifying, there is another level of sub-optimal learning. That is shame – beating you up. “I did the worst thing that no one will do”. Here, instead of blaming another person or the circumstance, we blame ourselves. This also reduces the opportunity of learning.
Now, you may ask, is there any optimum place to view life experiences? Yes! There is the point of personal responsibility.

We may not be always responsible for everything that happens. However, the more we are willing to view the world from this point, the more the control to our life are in our own hands. By operating “from the point of personal responsibility”, each of us has optimal control, direction, and command over our existence. From this perspective, “free will” surfaces in each individual action or omission, allowing us to learn as much as possible from each situation.

Life is a succession of choices. The abundant person embraces each outcome from “the point of personal responsibility”. As much as possible is learned from each situation. As a result, the next choice is more likely to be wiser.

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