Choosing versus Deciding

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Choosing versus Deciding

Choosing is YOU making a choice freely after consideration. In choosing, YOU are being the cause in the matter.

When you choose you will experience a sense of freedom.

Deciding, on the other hand, is making a choice based on certain considerations. Notice that in decisions, your choice is based on the considerations (and certain expectations for those considerations); so when your considerations and reasoning or expectations do not show up as originally thought, it causes frustration, anger, unhappiness, etc.

Said another way, what you have is what YOU have chosen. But most of us have forgotten that what we have is what we chose. Instead, we keep having persistent complaints and lead a miserable life.

Did you know that when you ( as a soul ) decided to take birth on the planet Earth, so that you can fulfill on learning certain Karmic Lessons during this lifetime, YOU chose Your Parents? Yes, you chose your parents.

Once you get this ( understand clearly) that what you have is what YOU have chosen; you have a choice to “choose that” and enjoy the freedom. If you continue to resist it, in that case, you still have it in your life and you will experience unhappiness and burden all the way.

🌷As I am sharing this, how about choosing your parents — the way they are and the way they are not? 😊

Remember, there is a very fine line between decision and choice.

Most of the time, people make decisions and they think that they have made a choice. For example, when people get married, most of the time it is based on considerations such as looks, money, job security, social status etc. And that’s why _when things don’t turn out as desired/ expected, it results into frustration and anger and sometimes, even in separation.

If you are already married or planning to get married, it is a good and sound idea to commit to yourself that I will love and respect my spouse the way he/she is and the way she isn’t. And that’s MY CHOICE.

Action Exercise: Take a look at your life. What are you not choosing in your relationship, personal life, business or career? Whatever it is, resolve to choose it the way it is and the way it is not. And that will be the beginning of happiness in your life.

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